13 years ago with envy and longing. Therapy "Envy is the enemy of the lucky ones." (Epictetus)
And you know what the envy, "says the HKSAR is the sadness or sorrow for another's good and emulation, desire for something that does not possess. Have you had that feeling? That's not to tolerate another's success, no matter if he does well because he made the effort given to get this result, because I do not know who said it, but I consider true: no rewards or punishments, only consequences .
But why the jealousy? "Insecurity, evil? For a mixture of both probably, because the merely envious and wish to contemplate what is envied something unattainable, something he believes can not achieve and starts (he says) cavarle the grave, planting the idea that their property is worth (emotional or material), through intrigue, deceit, treachery and opportunism. The difference between envy and envy is exactly the attribute which lacks the latter may be some creativity or spontaneity with which the envious is inhibited.
is a feeling that is not beneficial, so much that it is a cardinal sin, not only for its size but because it involves other sins, he breaks with the love of neighbor, the foundation of the Christian faith. But, I think, that envy is suffering more than the envied, than the welfare of others make you unhappy, may be the case that he never knows of the situation that puts the envious, in addition to live constantly with the desire to cause harm to another person.
Fernando Savater in his book "The 7 Deadly Sins" argues that envy can even be a democratic virtue, a tool to maintain equality, produce situations to avoid that some have more than others, and a gentleman born rich and another poor, makes this latter question: what have you that you have access to me for such a privilege? Who does pay taxes who denounce it does not, motivated by envy.
and longing, is synonymous with envy? No, the craving is something strongly desired in general, you want comfort, they yearn to fulfill dreams, you want wealth, you crave the welfare, emotional and economic. Envy is something in particular, which is owned by a person, a physical attribute, emotional or material, which is usually lacking.
And I? rather than envy desire, in fact, this blog is merely a witness to my desires, because they all can become realities if we have the courage or the courage to go for them. Thus, almost all entries have been longing become reality.